Eleven Plus Promises
You may feel that all you are doing is repeating your instructions – but your child does not really understand what you are saying – or even making an effort to understand.
You notice the yawns and the: “I am so bored with this work. Please can I do this later when I am not so tired?”
You hear the challenging sentiment of: “Mum, do I really have to do this work? You know I can do non verbal reasoning. You know I am better than you at non verbal.”
You say to yourself that enough is enough. You call a family meeting. Decisions are made. You write down the outcomes. Your Eleven Plus child will maintain the following precepts:
I promise to be more involved in what I am learning.
I will try harder to listen to what you are saying.
I will never again eat chocolate just before I am due to do some work.
I will make sure that I concentrate on my work. I will not argue that I need music or the T.V. on when I am working.
I will try to avoid having a short break every few minutes to check on what is happening in the rest of the world.
If you actually are right, I promise that I will acknowledge that, and try not to argue.
I will try hard to do my work when it is convenient to the rest of the family.
I will remember to say: “Thank You”.